Many of us are happy with our sex lives however for some we just can’t get enough and we have desires to try different things.
There are a vast number of adult lifestyle events and activities you and your partner can attend or participate in depending on how adventurous you are.
Aphrodisiacs
If it is just a problem of libido you could try an aphrodisiac or other well known enhancing products.
Oysters are commonly known to increase your libido presumably from the high content of Zinc they contain, a less widely know aphrodisiac are Turnips that apparently can double the females desire and increase sperm production in the male.
Sexual Positions
I can’t really imagine anyone not trying different positions during their love making and most of us will agree we all have a favourite.
Different positions can increase intimacy between couples and it can also increase the excitement. Not really a position more a place but making love in a different part of the house can also increase arousal.
Dressing up
Wearing something sexy or revealing for your partner is a good way to get them interested or increase their fun. A new sexy nightie can do the trick but some like to dress in particular styles such as a nurse while others may go for leather or PVC. For some the feel of these materials against their skin is particularly arousing. A full fetish kit can look extremely attractive.
Erotic magazines and films
Reading an erotic story or watching a spicy film together will in most cases immediately increase your sexual desire.
The top shelf publications found at most newsagents provide a good source of erotic stories and photos.
Try taking it in turns to read alternate paragraphs while caressing each other.
Erotic films can also be purchased from almost anywhere and they are much more graphic than was allowed in previous years.
How strong you like the content depends of you and your partner, be sure to discuss what each of you would like to watch together.
Reading erotic stories or watching erotic films together may give you new ideas to try in the bedroom together, maybe your learn a new sexual position.
Role play
Role play involves playing out a fantasy, again the list of fantasies you could try out are endless. Some people like to pretend they are strangers, they will meet out and pick each other up regenerating the spice between them. Other roles acted out may include whipping or spanking, being tied up, domination or submission.
Adult Toys
The most common is a vibrator and we believe most women have owned one at one point in their lives and if they haven’t they should get one today!
For the woman a vibrator gives her full control and allows her to gain an orgasm exactly how she likes it, for a man either using a vibrator on his partner or watching her can be very very arousing.
There are an endless array of styles and shapes of vibrators you can be sure to find one in your favourite colour or even one that glows in the dark.
Adult Games
There is a large array of adult games available that encourage the players to become aroused. Anything from simple drinking and stripping games to the more daring board games can be purchased from various outlets.
Some of the more daring adult board games can include dares or tasks to get you involved with the other players. Some are designed for couples while others are more suited for a mixed group of adventurous adults.
Sexopoly is one such game. Described as “A board game to play with your very good friends” If you are interested in buying this game please click the image to navigate to our shop.
Shows and exhibitions, galleries and cinemas
By venturing out there are many places you can visit that may increase your passion. Simple art galleries, cinemas and adult lifestyle exhibitions are good places to visit. If a regular gallery or sitting on the back seat at your local cinema doesn't do it for you, then you may like to visit a gallery that displays erotic art, many artists specialise in this area, there are also adult cinemas showing solely adult films. There are now regular adult lifestyle exhibitions such as Erotica and Passion which host a vast array of adult related merchandise from clothing to furniture, the exhibitions usually feature a show of erotic dance and are well worth the visit.
Naturism, spas and saunas Naturism is not usually associated with sex or that is what some of the true naturists tell us however simply being naked and at one with nature outdoors can be arousing. Swimming naked in a pool or lying on a sandy beech naked together is sure to be an erotic and liberated feeling. A naturist spa or sauna is a great place to experience this, most have a relaxing and soothing Jacuzzi and at some you may even find that couples openly engage in some kind of sexual activity but be sure to check the rules or you may find yourself thrown out.
Swinging or wife swapping
If you are really adventurous you may like to consider involving others in your sexual activities. We appreciate this is not something all of you may want to experiment with but there are many couples who do enjoy swinging.
Swinging has changes and is now far from anything like what used be termed “wife swapping”. These days you don’t rely on the luck of the draw but carefully pick your play partners.
A lot of husbands fantasise about seeing their wife with another man and probably more commonly is the desire to see two women enjoying each other and the man being allowed to enjoy them both.
A lot of lifestyle couples meet other couples for foursomes, they also do not necessarily have full sexual intercourse with other partners they may simply just caress each other or usually engage in swapping for oral intercourse only.
More experienced couples or swingers will have full sexual intercourse with other partners they invite to join them.
Most couple also insist on protective measures as there is an increased risk of picking up something nasty.
Adult clubs and parties For the more adventurous there are a large number of adult lifestyle clubs and venues all over the world with over 100 in the United Kingdom alone.
These clubs are generally exclusively members only and include clubs for gays, transvestites, swingers and fetish pursuits.
We have ourselves visited a number of these clubs and found the activity and facilities vary greatly between venues. Everything from Jacuzzis to dark rooms can be found and many have different themed areas to enhance the erotic experience.
While the fetish dress such as rubber or leather may look and sound more extreme the actual fetish clubs are often far less of an eye-opener than your average swingers club.
The fetish clubs are more about the act of dressing and the fetish itself and a good boogie where as at a swingers club you’re far more likely to have the opportunity to see some sexual activity and often be activity involved.
Many people hold their own adult parties or private meets in their own homes with others that they have met at clubs or via internet dating sites. Private meets are a good way of ensuring that you have carefully selected your potential sexual partners and allow you all to enjoy a more intimate sexual experience within a group in the safety of your own home.
Holidays
And if all that is not enough or you prefer to play in the sun then a adult lifestyle holiday could be just the ticket for your desire.
From the famous swinging Hedonism resorts in the Caribbean to secluded country resorts of the French reverie there is no excuse not to have some adult fun while on holiday.
A little more extreme or is it?
Many people have a fetish and most are not as extreme as you may expect.
Most popular fetish simply involves dressing up in a specific material or theme.
Materials range from rubber, leather or PVC. Themes may include uniforms such as military, school, maids, nurses and doctors.
The dressing up is usually accompanied with role-play.
The role-play allows you to act out your specific fantasy. You may like to be examined intimately by the doctor, spank the maid when she has been naughty or maybe you have the desire to be restrained by rope or tape commonly called bondage.
Some fetishes are a specific love of an item of clothing such as shoes or boots, in other cases it may be a particular part of the body. A common example is a foot fetish.
There are plenty of opportunities to indulge in your fantasy. There is a vast array of shops supplying fetish clothing and jewellery, once you are equipped with your PVC dress and whip, why not visit one of the many fetish clubs.
For a list of outlets and events please see the London Fetish Map.
Models in the photos above do not necessarily condone an adult lifestyle.
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